We’re used to seeing him dunk the basketball but now he’s dishing out a huge assist.
Kelly Williams is a bona fide legend of Philippine basketball. One of the best cagers of all time, he’s been named as one of PBA’s 40 Greatest Players. Without a doubt, many people look up to the 2008 league MVP.
Who could’ve guessed that an accomplished individual like him has been dealing with personal struggles all these years? On Instagram, Williams bravely opened up on several issues that took a toll on his mental health. According to the TNT Tropang Giga stalwart, it all started way back in 1989 when as a kid, he got teased for his choice of clothes and his looks.
"Tried to cope. I borrowed from friends and sis clothes/shoes even if they were too small," Williams wrote in his post.
20 years later, a blood disease and its required medication had the seven-time PBA champion gaining weight. Again, his insecurities kicked in. The fat jokes didn't help, too.
"My esteem took a huge hit coming back to the PBA 30 lbs. heavier looking different from meds. My fragility had to endure people laughing in my face at how fat I got," Williams recalled.
As a response, he tried to getting in the best shape possible. But ultimately, that didn’t alleviate the weight on his shoulders.
"[I] changed eating/training and transformed my body. At first, it was good hearing compliments. That quickly faded," said the former MVP.
It wasn’t until this year when the 41-year-old forward realized what he needed to do so he can free himself from his troubles.
"Worked intently on self love. Became clear I needed to work on this to live fully," Williams elaborated.
Attached on his lengthy post are a couple pictures symbolizing his emotional journey. The first one sees him covering up his body, which represents self-doubt. The second photo is him looking comfy without his shirt on, as if to say, he doesn’t need anyone’s approval anymore.
"I realized I was living life as that sad kid standing on the porch wearing the blazer; the scared nine-year-old that skipped school to not get teased. I let it all go."
Williams showing his vulnerable side is of great help, especially for those who are having the same problems as he did. Coming from him, the importance of self-love and acceptance has been reaffirmed. What a great assist by number 21!